1/05/2011

Three cups of hangovers: grassroots success to learn

Tao is "three cups of hangovers, grassroots success", what is this? Someone to three cups of hangovers understanding as follows: "a man completely don't drink interpersonal relationship will be fine, too like drink wine that his interpersonal relationship must be bad. Drink can close relationship between people, the scene is harmonious, drinking too much will become confused and would be disorderly things that are bad, three cups of hangovers say, want neither in hobby amiable above and the somebody else antipathetic, don't exclude interpersonal communication medium. Also social occasions necessary an accomplishment."
I quite agree with this, here I'll on wine questions to talk about my point of view.
Start from the positive perspective, must drink for a person, especially of the grassroots success, it's a great advantage.
First, dinner party on the wine table drink is a very common thing, also is very necessary in a on booze, there is a man who will not drink a little wine, it is very disappointing thing. Of course, now in many places, drink juice milk or something sometimes is possible, but, can drink or relatively better.
Again, if you are a leader, all day have a lot of entertainment, of course you can drink like have on hand to give you DangJia. In some occasions, oneself drink a bit, drink moderately, while others drink "wrong", in the eyes of some is "decent" thing, which is a kind of human weaknesses, not passing a special training, people are always in some occasions revealed this sort of thing.
Again, talking business, trust is the premise of cooperation. And how can trust him? Drinking is also a kind of method. Especially in the north, people like to do business with generous person, how is generous person, on one hand is to will drink. Both sides together to talk about business, you look is diligently to drink, others will feel your heart is very sincere, he even can trust you.
Actually, in the process, is also drink one look out the characteristics of time, he can not laughing, can lifting weights just as twiddling a feather, can dozen circle field, it is all the wine can also searched out things.
From the Angle of negative below old said a binge drinking, perhaps say more than by the capacity for liquor would be like.
First, alcohol is hurting yourself, gas hurts body, wine big also injury body. Many people excessively dependent on wine, changed the alcohol dependence, visceral was significant, a lot of middle-aged because alcohol and looks like a "small old man" same, sad.
Again, a person too can drink, his interpersonal relationship must not well, because everyone is afraid of with he together.
In addition, three times also to our proper drink alcohol, appropriate vent our desire is the friendship, but excessive is bad. A person will get drunk, for his image is very huge blow. And people in drunkenness, we can not control wish yourself, empress the wine disorderly. Drunken slip of tongue is one affected to the person very bad things, drunken slip of tongue, the person can inadvertently utters shouldn't say.
I once and two a n experienced person to have a meal together, they say with me, must remember, wine can't much, drinking too much, they delirious, this time man took his ambition to expose come out, so that others will try to put you down. An elderly and I talked his painful lessons, he was originally a state-owned enterprises, the director of once, he and another person together a vice director of competitive position. In the competition, his condition is the dominant, but once leadership and drink with them, he drank too much, slip of tongue, say except some inner ambitions, the leadership to frighten. As a result, he in the competition would have failed. A certain degree also because of this reason, after a time he left the original seat, be regarded as sea business it, finally make can be so-so, according to what he said, he later several times. Business is because he drunk lapses spoil.
While drinking and many hidden rules and many local characteristics of things. For example, in many places, and officials drink, can't drinking maotai, should drink wuliangyie. Wu liang ye is domestics wine class after maotai liquor taste slightly, but officials drinking maotai, this looks "too corruption", still wuliangyie of insurance.
Say first here, finally I speak a little, what drink something such as is important, but it will never become people live and work of the main melody. People still want to invest in the theme of people like things, dropping in struggle in the fields. Drinking, interpersonal relationship this is is on your way to success of powerful booster, instead of the engine.

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